My Girl Quest

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Jul 8, 2008

Life goes on

OK, it's time for this guy here to get back to his new way of living. It was nothing but a pathetic, way too sweet post my latest one and that's not what I plan to be - weak, exposed, ready to be hurt again. I just want to be the dating maniac, the dating expert, the man who just gets girls and nothing more. It's no time for love yet. No time for impossible love!

And, based on the fact that whatever does not kill you makes you stronger, here I am! Ready to restart dating, ready to go on a flirting spree again and never stop. Ready to prove that I am a man who knows what he wants (sex with girls) and knows how to get that. Cheers for my new life and for being able to quickly get back on track. And I didn't even have to get wasted in order to get over it :D

So... here is another little plan for the next few days:

Find out what I., my work colleague, really wants from me
Restart two of my previously failed side-quests: telling girls they're beautiful and trying to pick them up on the street.
restart online flirting with "my girls" - last time was a success, which means that anything is possible.
stop making plans, lists, calculations and just go for it! :D

Jul 4, 2008

People say about My Girl Quest...

When I first started writing this blog I wanted it to be a quiet, really personal dating diary. I knew nothing about blogging (nor flirting) but today I have learned a few tricks on both, even though my priority is still My Girl Quest.

I must admit, though, that I really like all the attention my blog has received during its first month and, even though it’s nowhere near what a veteran blogger would call satisfactory, my megalomaniac ego is pleased. Because there are quite a few people who care, who like to know what happens with my quest and who help me, every now and then, with precious advice and support. The most important thing they (or, would it be better if I said YOU?) do, though, is reading. There is nothing better for a pathetic Don Juan-wannabe like myself than knowing that his adventure, which can not be shared with his real friends, can still be shared here, with the virtual friends.

And I really like that at least a bunch of people (6, to be more specific) have faith and believe that I will have the needed strength to complete my quest. To succeed. To get the 100 girls within the 365 days. At least that’s what the poll says…

However, I am not at all surprised to find out that exactly the same amount of people are sure I will fail. One of the votes there is mine and I will probably never change it. Still, I hope that things will evolve in such a way that everybody else will be convinced to change their vote. And hopefully I will be able to prove to the world that even a semi-failure like myself (or whatever you’d like to name a guy who gets dumped by a girl after loving her for 5 years like truly, madly, deeply) can turn his life around and start living it on the fast lane.

And back to my flirting/dating/life changing saga! Except from the 12 people who voted this first poll (without counting me – and don’t laugh at the numbers, it’s still a young blog :P) I have also received three personal messages (via comments) from people who wanted to encourage me. I was surprised. Surprised to see that people care, people are willing to help, people wish to encourage me. So thank you all for the support! If all the people in this world would be as great as you are, we would live in a perfect world!

Jul 3, 2008

My Girl Quest vs. Her Man Quest

It was just the other day when I was realizing that My Girl Quest is totally different from anything a sane person, or at least a grown up, would do. I mean… it doesn’t really make sense to keep flirting, dating and having sex with random girls just because, right? Well, this is exactly what I am planning to do and, at the moment, I am not ready nor willing to start a true relationship, just like I said before.

Though, I have realized that I’m not the only person with a quest – there are other people blogging about very similar things (yet very different). One of them and the person who made me realize that “I’m not alone” is Prisqua and her quest to find love again. I guess you see the similarities. And there are more.

She is picked up by all sorts of people (“hwy baby how r y y r so beautiful and sexy” is an example of today’s art of picking up, which means we’re doomed!), I keep improving my pick up techniques. She keeps rejecting all those losers, I can be considered one of then, up to a point (at least that’s what I like to believe). Well… at least I know I got rejected quite a few times during this past month. So… you see the similarities.

What makes us different? It is exactly the core of our missions: I am out to have fun, live my dream, create my adventure, get the girls and forget their names; Prisqua tries to find love – she doesn’t have time for silly little games, quick little pointless sexcapades and so on (or, if she does have time, it’s not what she’s looking for :P). Yes, she wants to find true love again. So, I may ask you now: who has the easiest job to do? Me, of course! Who will win the most if the end of the quest will be successful? Her, of course – I would only have 100 names written in a notebook (and within the posts here), she would have only one name to remember, cherish and enjoy for the rest of her life. Well, that is something worth going after! The only problem is that I don’t have time for that, yet. I have other plans – but it’s all because I want to prove something to myself, not because I’m a mindless, heartless beast. And that is the most important reason why I wish Prisqua and her Man Quest good luck (and quickly get back into my underground, secret lab to start searching the perfect flirting techniques :D)

P.S. For all the lads reading this post - this is Prisqua (watch to the end, it's worth all your time!):

Jun 7, 2008

To do list

Survival of the strongest. Or the fittest. That’s the deal right now. I need a side-plan, a kind of “To do list” I have to check if I really want to succeed in changing my life. Here are the solid facts:

For 20 minutes, EVERY day I will walk on the streets of my beautiful city and tell random girls they are beautiful. Just like that and especially if they are not! This will probably give me no dates (but many punches and curses, probably), but at least I will find it really easy to talk with other girls in clubs. Stupid plan?

I will never honk nice girls I see on the streets. That’s absolutely rude, that’s something truckers do. However, each time I will find myself stuck into traffic and I see a girl passing by, I WILL have the guts to open the window of my car and ask if she needs a ride somewhere.

I will do my best to take AT LEAST one picture of the girls I’m going to date. Things should happen really quickly and I completely doubt I will have too many memories of them in 3-4 years from now. And an image tells you more than 1000 words, right?

In my instant messaging software I have about 60 girls living in the same city I do. I don’t know how they got there but I must start talk to each and every one of them, no matter if they are married, committed or gay. I need to have lots of options available just in case. (Just a side-note: Yeah, I’m talking about the girls I don’t know IRL!)

I will burn all the pictures I have with M. Yes, I mean ALL of them – including this framed one I still keep here on my desk...

Only if I manage to check all the things on this list I will be able to say that I have a new life. It’s all fair in love and war, right? And I’m not planning to start a war, so… Sorry again, C! You’re the first and last girl in my life who’s going to hear these words.